Several years ago I sat on the floor of my apartment weeping from the pain of a broken heart.  I had recently ended a relationship with a young man who cheated on me. As I tried to release the excruciating pain from yet another lost relationship, I wondered if I would ever find someone who would really love me.  My own search for a relationship wasn't working.

As I wept nightly crying out to God to heal my broken heart, although I felt alone and abandoned, God proved to be there.  He directed me to Luke 4:18 and John 14:27 letting me see He came to heal the brokenhearted. Gradually as I was healed, I found myself wondering if there could possibly be someone out there just for me. As I sat with my eyes closed in prayer I heard God's still, small voice say, "Tonight pray for me to send you a mate".   So I walked into my bedroom kneeled at the bed and said a very short, heart-felt prayer asking God to send me a mate.

God did and shortly after he arrived, God spoke to me again. It was in a vision where I was standing next to Jesus when a girl approached me. She saw me but didn't see Jesus. She was very beautiful and crying profusely. She was in great pain as she asked for help in receiving her mate. Taken aback by this, I thought as pretty as she was why would she need my help and who was I to help anyone.  Then Jesus spoke and said He wanted me to help others received their mate.  He told me to write the ebook, "How to Receive the Mate of Dream".  I did and created this website to obey His command to help others.

The Walk of Faith

I had to believe for my mate and endured all sorts of attacks by the enemy.  From naysayers to discouragement to eradicating wrong thinking and dealing with doubt. There were even times I thought it would not come to pass.

Then after meeting my mate it was clear that God had only revealed it to me first.  The person God chose to be my mate had no idea who I was.  In fact, he was quite carnal.   And thus the spiritual warfare began.   I thought as I believed for my mate I had seen all the attacks of enemy, but I was wrong. I had to deal with multiple demonic attacks as I had to stand my ground to see the Lord bring it to pass.   I had to deal with getting out of Gods will by moving too fast or too slow.   I had to deal with the consequences of telling God's secrets.   I had to deal with rejection, and because he was carnal,  I had to deal his desire to fornicate, dating other girls, distance and much more.   So if you are dealing with issues similar to these, only strong faith, being grounded in the Word and prayer will see you through.

There is a lot of talk about how God chooses your mate and I have an opinion and its just that -- an opinion. I realized that Jesus asked me to help others receive their mate never did He ask me to go away from that.  So if your desire is to let the Lord pick your spouse, I'm here to help you. 

There are other websites out there and countless books written, so let the Lord direct you to the ones that best fit you.  But know, I take this very seriously because I know I will have to give an account for what He has told me to do. The wonderful thing about what the Lord is doing is almost all the inquiries received, someway or another, I have gone through it, come out the other side and can share with you what the Lord did.  As a result your, questions/prayers are only seen by my eyes and are taken directly to the Father along with my heartfelt petition to intervene in your behalf.

It is my goal to offer tips and helpful information but more importantly to point you to Christ. Since God created you for relationship with Him, I want to encourage you to lean on Him. Since God knows your situation intimately, only He can provide you with the best advice and direction to see you through. So the insight provided should be used to confirm what the Lord is already telling you.